Being lost is no fun, and wandering around doesn't get you anywhere. We've all had those experiences, and we have felt that way in life too. The principles of a journey and life are very similar. If you want to end up some place specific, you need to first decide what that place is! If you want something specific for your life, you need to first decide what that is! Yet, we often forget this crucial first step.
You need to decide where you want to go, if you want to get there.